Weak men and disorderly women
Tocqueville visited America in the 1830s which was long before women voted and wrote that America was great because its women were great. He concludes his book by saying that because American women are truly feminine, America is prospering: "As for myself, I do not hesitate to avow that although the women of the United States are confined within the narrow circle of domestic life, and their situation is in some respects one of extreme dependence, I have nowhere seen woman occupying a loftier position; and if I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply: to the superiority of their women." He said America is great because of"the superiority of its women" who live traditional roles. Feminists write endless books and give countless speeches saying everything is so much better today because women have given up"extreme dependence." They believe that they can make it just fine without a man, even if they have children, and America is better for it.
He warned America that if it was seduced by feminism then America would decline and the men would become"weak" and women would become"disorderly." Father often uses the word"order." He has come to bring order to this disorderly world. He constantly says women are out of order. Tocqueville's Democracy in America is a classic for good reason. He gave deep insights about America that we can learn from today. He perceptively saw, as he traveled around America in the early 19th century, that if America adopted the deadly ideology of "mixing" men and women we would become a nation of "weak men and disorderly women." Sadly this has happened. Listen carefully to his breathtaking eloquence: "There are people in Europe who, confounding together the different characteristics of the sexes, would make man and woman into beings not only equal but alike. They would give to both the same functions, impose on both the same duties, and grant to both the same rights; they would mix them in all things -- their occupations, their pleasures, their business. It may readily be conceived that by thus attempting to make one sex equal to the other, both are degraded, and from so preposterous a medley of the works of nature nothing could ever result but weak men and disorderly women." Not only has America become"degraded" and"preposterous" but the UC has become digested by feminism and brothers are"weak" and sisters are"disorderly."
By the time Father came to America, women had been totally digested by feminism. Father constantly blasts American women for being bossy: "the chain of order and command has been completely reversed." He is absolutely against the insane interchanging that goes on in America: "In this country women have a commanding voice at home. In a typical American home the wife is master of the house, while the husband is like a servant; his shoulders are hunched over and he is always checking to see what his wife's mood is. Because of the fall of man the chain of order and command has been completely reversed, and now men follow behind women, particularly with regard to love affairs. Men have become so helpless, and women always take command.... Now the time has come for women to restore their original role, particularly American women. Nowadays American men just do not want to get married and become slaves of domineering women.""Chain of command"?"Slaves"? This is pretty strong speech because he sees a matriarchy in American homes. Men may have a lot of position externally, but internally the women wear the pants.
Men are bones, women are flesh
Father says, "American women are saying, 'We want to be in the bone position. Let the men become the soft flesh.' Today America is suffering from terrible confusion; people don't know which side is up. There is no understanding of right order, subject and object, or who takes initiative and who is responsive. What about you American Unification women, are you different?" No, they aren't. They want to interchange with men. Father says, "In America, many women pull the men around behind them and the men just follow timidly. I have never seen so many boneless men as in America C 'Yes, dear, whatever you say.' ... If you women don't change that trend, there can be nothing but darkness for the future of this country. America will not survive. There must be God's order and sequence, a certain discipline. We must maintain that discipline."
Sadly, Elizabeth Cady Stanton's written goal of women getting the vote came true and Marx and Engels' dream of women leaving the home came true. There is power in written goals and putting commitment and energy behind them. Others did not have the same clearly written goals and as much fire in the belly as Satan's champions who unwittingly worked to destroy the family and inflame the battle of the sexes. America was on the rise to be a good nation for the Messiah to come to, but God's efforts to perfect the traditional family were thrown out in favor of Satan's feminist family values. There was very little divorce a hundred years ago. Now feminists are delighted there is 50% divorce because that shows we are"growing." They say marriages of the past were more unhappy than today. This is what Satan wants everyone to believe. The truth is that women were happier back then and society was more stable and in order than today where feminism is the reigning ideology.
Eve castrating Adam
America has declined. Father said in his Day of Hope tour when he came to America that only a Godless nation would take prayer out of schools. Were there prayers in schools a hundred years ago? Yes. Was God welcome there? Yes. The common thinking is that it was a nightmare a hundred years ago and we, thank God, don't live with their medieval views of life. We are modern and enlightened and better and etc. In a book on the history of women's suffrage, Century of Struggle, Eleanor Flexner ends her book saying,"Half a century after adoption of the Nineteenth Amendment, a number of promised or threatened events have failed to materialize. The millennium has not arrived, but neither has the country's social fabric been destroyed." Some people thought the millennium would come because women would clean up society by getting into the man's world. They haven't. But Ms. Flexner is wrong that the social fabric has not been destroyed. Feminists and and this feminist culture are in denial that things are better since women got the vote. Women getting the vote was the death knell for society. It was Eve castrating Adam. All hell broke loose because of it. Cain killed Abel on a global scale. The World Wars were inevitable. But the killing fields of Communism were not. The worst and most tragic wars were not on the battle fields anyway. They are in the billions of homes where there are billions or trillions of fights in the battle of the sexes. No one has won that war. Father has come to stop the fighting forever. He does this by teaching what subject and object mean. He teaches the vertical laws of life from God -- instead of the horizontal ideologies everyone lives by.
Restoration of the Fall
The Principle teaches that the Fall happened because Adam, Eve and Lucifer left their positions. Lucifer dominated Eve, and Eve dominated Adam. Restoration is the Messiah teaching men to dominate women who in turn can dominate angels. Feminism teaches the reverse. It teaches women to leave their position. Satan whispered in Eve's ear and she became the first feminist. Satan whispers in women's ears to make them unhappy in their positions. Women are sold the idea that to be the Biblical wife is boring and depressing. Satan sure thought that of his position. Satan mixes up the roles of men and women. Women initiate the four fallen natures of not seeing from God's viewpoint -- they see things from Satan's viewpoint -- from a horizontal view, not vertical which has man over woman.
Men and women have the same value and their love is horizontal as the four position foundation shows. But that diagram is illustrating the division of men and women and does not illustrate that men"dominate" or lead women.
Three roles for men: protector, provider, patriarch
The three pillars of the traditional family are for men to be protectors, providers and patriarchs. Satan speaks through feminists who hate these roles. Feminists teach the opposite -- women are to leave their positions and join in the responsibilities of leading, protecting and providing. The epitome of this is a real life woman general who is base commander of a U.S. Marine Corps base in America. Today we have women cops and firefighters risking and giving their lives for househusbands. And everyone smiles and thinks, "How advanced we are in our equality!" Feminism is chaos. Godism is divine order. A woman playing general and leading men in the Marine Corps shows, as Father said, that"America is suffering from terrible confusion."
Feminism vs. Godism
Feminism is the ideology that sees it as a crusade to destroy the traditional family by getting women to compete with men outside the home and preferably winning over them and for men to equally share in housework. They misuse the word "equality" just as all Communists misuse good words like democratic and freedom. In the sixties Satan inflamed the fires of feminism to match the blessing of True Parents in 1960. True Parents live by the three pillars of the Biblical marriage. Father doesn't come to abolish the traditional marriage but to fulfill it and perfect it. Name me once when Mother has led, protected and provided for Father? Show me one official picture of the True Parents where Mother leaves her position of being on Father's left?
A little bit pregnant
This is Satan's sneaky technique. You can't be a little bit pregnant. You can't have a little bit of adultery. It's all or nothing. You're either rebellious or not. A little bit of rebellion is just a slippery slope to total chaos. Here are twelve quick absolute black and white issues:
1. Women should vote or not
2. Heterosexual sex or not
3. Vegetarianism or not
4. Pacifism or not
5. Nudist or not
6. Jesus is the Messiah or not
7. Father is the Third Adam or not
8. Polygamy or not
9. Abortion is murder or not
10. Adultery is wrong or not
11. Women should be in combat or not
12. God exists or not
Lots of things in life are either absolutely right or wrong, good or evil, of God or Satan. There is no gray area, no third way, no creative brand new invention in the Completed Age, headwing, Godism of the ideal world. Feminism is in that category. You either believe in Father, the Bible and books such as those by the Andelins or you believe in Karl Marx and Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Betty Friedan.
Let's take a brief look at a quote of Father on the difference between men and women. In a speech called"Where and How Do You Want to Live Your Life?" given on June 9, 1996 printed in Today's World (November, 1996) he says,"Who stands in the position of subject? [Man.] Why should man stand in the position of subject? [Because he contains the seed of life.] Unificationist women do not claim that man is the subject because they like that idea, but rather they have no choice in the matter! You did not believe it until you joined the Unification Church."
America has been boiled to death in feminism
America has been boiled in feminism that wants to interchange men and women's position. Father goes on to say,"Women in this American melting pot society however claim that they should be subject. Who will eventually prevail?" So far American women have prevailed, but eventually Father's politically incorrect message will be heard and lived.
Parable of the farmer and the field
Father goes on to say these powerful words:"If these American women insist upon women being subject, then eventually we can bring women from Africa and India and through them sow the true seed." Why Africa and India? These are cultures that are not as feminist. They are women who are not rich and arrogant like American women. Women there are more objective and feminine. They are not like Amazon American women who are rebellious. Father says,"Then the American women who insist on maintaining their subjectivity will certainly face some problems. What then is your role as a woman? You are like a field waiting to be planted. Whatever seed the farmer may sow in your field you have to produce." American women are now screaming"sexist misogynist!" Father, they say, sees women as sex objects who are supposed to be barefoot and pregnant. He says,"As a field do you have the luxury of telling the farmer what kind of seed to sow? You have absolutely no choice. American women don't like such an idea. In order to respond affirmatively to me, you have had to drastically change your thinking."
Women are thieves
Father says,"Once the farmer sows the seed in your field, can you claim the harvest as your own?" Father is denouncing women for being subjective. They have left their position and usurped men's position. Women have absolutely no respect for men's subjective position. He says,"American law deals with child custody in a misguided way. The woman's responsibility is to follow her husband. If your husband represents the bones, you are like the flesh. Therefore, the two of you have to become one. Otherwise, we will end up with two origins, two directions and two effects. When divorce occurs, who usually wants custody of the children? [The mother.] Since we understand the truth, shouldn't such women be considered thieves? You do not consider them thieves, so am I telling you a lie? [No.]"
A hundred years ago, men got the children if there was divorce. One reason there was so little divorce in the 19th century was that women knew that they would not get the children. Feminists cry for equality. But we don't have equality with feminism. Women overwhelmingly get the children. There shouldn't be equality anyway. The men should be given the children in divorce instead of the women. Father often sounds like Victorians because they were more spiritually correct than we are.
Men are in vertical position to women
Father continues saying,"The father stands in the vertical position. Therefore, if you want to climb up the vertical ladder you have to climb up your father. Your mother is in the horizontal position of the field." I really like Father using parables and other visual images such as a farmer and a field or ladders and baskets to teach his point. It is like Jesus talking. He continues,"The head of your family is your father, not your mother." How much clearer can he get? Men are patriarchs. Men lead. There is no dual leadership or interchanging of positions as feminism teaches. There is equality in value, but not roles. He says,"He stands in the position of the family king. In some American families there are various fathers and mothers, and everything is confused and mixed up." He says the word"mix." Feminists teach that it is good to"mix" men and women because men are out of it. Dear Reader. Choose which use of"mix" you want. Either you can have the order of Father or the chaos of feminists.
Children in divorce should stay with the father
He continues,"This shows that they have completely disregarded this principle. If the law stated that when a couple divorces the children should remain with their father there would be far less divorce in this country. Suppose all of these children desire to follow their father: wouldn't the mother eventually come back because of her love for her children? Don't you think there would be a greater chance of saving the family? No matter how fertile your field might be, if there is no farmer to sow the seeds, then your field will be wasted." One of the principal complaints in the Seneca Falls Declaration in 1848 was that fathers automatically received custody after divorce. When Father or anyone says the truth there is always the opposition with their arguments. Father doesn't get into nitty gritty debates. That's our job. One argument that feminists make against men getting the children is that men are the cause of divorce. They are drunken hairy beasts beating the crap out of pure, sweet, wonderful, godly, innocent, spiritual, sacrificial, kind women physically and verbally. It is fashionable to bash men today. The truth is that women do not have a monopoly on goodness and men do not have a monopoly on evil. One of the causes of many men turning to drink and other addictions is because society has told them they are not valuable. Father teaches the reverse. If society understood that men are the center of the family and held men in esteem and gave them the children in divorce, there would be far less dysfunctional behavior in men. Even if a man is out of it and the wife divorces him, she still should not get the children. They should go to the man's father, brothers or other men in his family.